Fostering and other adults in the home

It is not unusual for there to be adults, apart from the foster carers, in the fostering home.

There may be the foster carers’ grown-up children or young people who have remained living with their foster carers after turning 18 (and they may have partners), or a foster carer may have a new partner.  

The usual expectation is that when there is an adult living in the fostering home, or visiting the home regularly, they will undertake a criminal record check. If the adult was living in the home at the time of the initial foster carer assessment, that will be taken into account as part of the assessment.

Foster carers’ new partners

Some foster carers may be approved when they are single but form a new partnership or significant relationship during their fostering career. Others may experience a breakdown in relationship with their partner, or a partner may move out of, or return to, the household due to work or other commitments. While relationships are a part of normal family life, it is important to ensure that children are safeguarded and cared for in families that are safe, loving, and secure. 

Relationships are personal and foster carers have the right to as normal an experience as possible. However, foster carer’s must inform their fostering service of any major change in personal circumstances, and the impact on the wider fostering household will need to be considered. 

Local guidance from the fostering service should also help foster carers to navigate changes to their household and the impact this may have, and the service expectations at every stage need to be clear. 

How we can help foster carers

  • Our advice lines provide confidential, independent and impartial advice for foster carers in the UK.
  • Our members also have exclusive access to our online community where you can log in to share your experience and get advice from other foster carers.